مصائب و الام پر صبر کرنا سیکھنا چاہئے اور ہر حال میں اللہ کا شکر ادا کیا جائے کہیں ایسا نہ ہو کہ جس تکلیف میں اب ہیں اور نا شکری کر رہے ہیں،اُس سے بڑی مصیبت میں مبتلا کر دیے جائیں۔مصیبتوں پر صبر کرنے سے گناہ معاف ہوتے ہیں اور درجے بلن ہوتے ہیں۔حدیث پاک میں ہے کہ مومن کا سارا کام ہی خیر ہے،نعمت ملے تو صبر کرتا ہے، اگر تکلیف میں ہو تو صبر کرتا ہے،دونوں صورتوں میں رب کی رضا نصیب ہوتی ہے۔
A King Boat Trip And Crying Boy:
A king was in the same boat with a Persian slave who had never before been at sea and experienced the inconvenience of a vessel. He began to cry and to tremble to such a degree that he could not be pacified by kindness, so that at last the king became displeased as the matter could not be remedied. In that boat there happened to be a philosopher, who said: ‘With thy permission I shall quiet him.’ The king replied: ‘It will be a great favour.’ The philosopher ordered the slave to be thrown into the water so that he swallowed some of it, whereon be was caught and pulled by his hair to the boat, to the stern of which he clung with both his hands. Then he sat down in a corner and became quiet. This appeared strange to the king who knew not what wisdom there was in the proceeding and asked for it. The philosopher replied: ‘Before he had tasted the calamity of being drowned, he knew not the safety of the boat; thus also a man does not appreciate the value of immunity from a misfortune until it has befallen him. ‘O thou full man, barley-bread pleases thee not. She is my sweetheart who appears ugly to thee. To the huris of paradise purgatory seems hell. Ask the denizens of hell. To them purgatory is paradise. There is a difference between him whose friend is in his arms and him whose eyes of expectation are upon the door.